Ignore Me, Not...

"There are no strings on me..."

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INTUITION

What is the opposite of Intuition?

Intuition is: "Knowing something without consciously knowing all the evidence."

Denial is: "Choosing not to know when all the evidence is right there in front of you. Denial is something all human beings do by believing this incident will be the last." ~Gavin De Becker

Change...transmogrification...

Life and Style... transmogrification!

The advancement in technology has changed our lives, our styles, and our lifestyles, especially in the way we work and the way we communicate with our colleagues, classmates, families, and friends.

The World is not Round!

A disappointment to Christopher Columbus or to Ferdinand Magellan because today, the world is no longer round, It's electronic! Connected by microchips and the Cloud. One does not have to leave his/her chair at home to go to work, go to the library, or shop. It's all on the screen using the fingers to navigate.

Thus losing the value of personal touch because one will just have to click a button to like, poke, or post a greeting on the "wall".

Though you may be miles away, still you get the chance to talk face-to-face using the technology!

Amazing? For a child born in the 70's and earlier, YES! These "amazing" gadgets are only seen in James Bond movies!

Pardon, so what's a tablet? Err... Bluetooth what?

Nowadays, it's easier to reach a lot of people - using: mobile phones, tablets... go to Skype, Facebook, Messenger, Wee Chat, what have we!

So shouldn't communication be accessible to everyone? Yet, we still miss out on connecting with others...to reach out... 😞 

Me

...an inconspicuous figure easily overlooked. 

I don't consider myself a writer or blogger, more like an aspiring wordsmith or poet 🤔. 

I might not possess prodigious intelligence, but perhaps I've been fortunate – a simple and unassuming individual moving steadily through life's journey. 

Just plain and simple... me.

Weird Facts About Me!

1. My wardrobe seems to consist of a single hue – black. Yet, despite the apparent simplicity, I find myself grappling with the daily decision of which black dress to don. 

2. The color that resonates most with me is a bold and vibrant red.

3. A peculiar touch I enjoy in my coffee routine is adding 2 tablespoons of vodka for that extra kick.

4. Despite lacking the skill of swimming, I've found solace and excitement in the world of ocean kayaking, my favorite water sport.

5. The fear of crowds, masses, or people – known as demophobia – has taken its place in the roster of my anxieties.

6. Among my fears, agoraphobia stands out. It encapsulates the dread of being in situations where a panic attack might manifest, potentially in the presence of others, with the added challenge of escaping swiftly.

7. When it comes to setting the volume, I have an affinity for odd numbers – a quirk of mine that manifests at levels like 5, 7, 9, 11, and even 25.

... and the tales of my idiosyncrasies continue to unfold! — to be continued

“My Father..."

My first Ferris wheel adventure unfolded when I was a mere four years old, and who stood steadfast by my side during that exhilarating journey? None other than my father. His presence marked that thrilling moment and set the tone for the countless times he'd shown up in my life.

My father defied conventional roles, treating me not as a stereotypical baby girl of the family but as a fellow explorer of the world. He patiently coached me through riding a bike, mastering a scooter's mechanics, and steering a car's path. Yet, his mentorship extended far beyond the realm of vehicles.

Under his patient guidance, I learned to pluck melodies from a ukulele's strings and coax harmonious sounds from a harmonica. My eclectic taste in music found its roots in his philosophy, one that embraced diverse fields of knowledge and encouraged learning with genuine passion.

Numbers once conjured a formidable dread within me, and that sentiment persists. Mathematics was a puzzle I grappled with, yet my father, in a twist of fate, urged me toward an engineering path. A perplexing contradiction, it seemed – the man I esteemed above all, pushing me toward a field that seemed inimical to my strengths. Could anything be more paradoxical?

“The purpose of education is to learn and grow. Transform your weakness into a source of power. Embrace your numeric apprehension as an opportunity to learn,” he advised, his words knitting bewilderment into my expression.

He gazed at me with a mixture of amusement and impatience, his eyebrows dancing a lively rhythm, and began, "Make your weakness your…" Before he could finish, I interjected, "your strength."

And so, I embarked on a journey to confront life head-on, relegating fear to a mere specter trailing behind me. 

With each passing academic year, I hurdled obstacles like an exchange student in an unfamiliar land. A daunting path it was, rife with transient challenges. I navigated through an environment where women in engineering were a rarity, a rose among thorns. 

However, my resilience led to four consecutive years on the Dean's list, a testament to my perseverance in a domain historically dominated by men.

Then came the day of the Board exam, a day painted in anxiety. A lone math question awaited, Derive the formula for the area of a Circle! Can you guess the outcome? I emerged triumphant, passing the Electrical Engineers Board exam – a feat that mightily confounds my relationship with mathematics. 

My accomplishment became a source of pride, a laurel atop my unique journey.

The lesson resounds: Take the leap. And though aquatic fears bound me, they did not deter my passion for kayaking, my cherished water sport. "After all, life vests exist for a reason," he reassured.

"Numbers daunt you? Be pragmatic, wield a calculator!"

My father, an unyielding wellspring of guidance, has bequeathed wisdom aplenty. He remains my hero, not only on Father's Day but in every waking moment. His influence stretches across the fabric of my life, an unwavering force that shapes my narrative.

This One's For You My Baby...(by isi)

Ever since we met
I felt a bond between us
that no distance can separate
Though you're miles away
Inside my heart your so near
I can feel inside and hold you dear

Right now as I lay here on my bed
I feel your presence beside me
Holding your hands and saying sweet words
     that reaches even my soul

Your voice gives me warmth on those cold days
Your smile brings sunshine on those dark moments
It's like life flashing back right in front of me

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I wish to be with you
I wish it would come true
Seeing you smiling in front of me
While the soft wind blows and the sun shines on that moment
The moment that I will never forget... ever...